How to talk with your child.
How to talk to a child, he listened to, and how to listen when a child says.
First you must learn to listen fully, indicating that the child, for example when doing business with your child you are talking with him fully without thinking about excess.
You need to prepare a meal, and the child wanted to talk, start to cook together and talk together.
Please ensure that the conversation with your party had any questions and in any case do not advise that the child - do not listen to the end.
You can help your child to tell everyone interested in his emotions.
For example a child says his kitten scratched, and from my mother hears "Really?" (Concerned tone).
In this situation, the child will want to tell in detail how it happened.
When the child has a sense of hatred, envy, anger, or other negative emotions will never deny them, call them by their names.
Support the child in conversation and make it clear to him that it is also important to you, as follows: "It would be good to have a lot of money and such a platform, so I can buy you own a motorcycle."
Instead of: "Why do you need a motorcycle, you`re still small and we do not have the money for it."
Never break off the dream child, if the parent is the best show understanding.
- Child: "When I grow up I will builder."
- Parent: "This is a very interesting profession, right?"
So you push the child to learn more about what the builder.
Direct the child in the right direction, if he needs information, he can tell me where to find her.
Never respond directly to the question, otherwise it will simply not interested.
When picking up a child from the garden to talk to him about how he spent time just try without questioning, in a gentle manner.
For example: "Today was a delicious breakfast in the garden?", "What kind of story you read today in the band?. . No, sorry, but what you want to hear?"
The main thing is that the questions were directed to the exact situation or action.
The child is very hard to answer questions like: What was that? as the mood? Who was it?
I will forgive him answer the questions today probably was your friend in the garden? You probably played with it in your favorite game? If not too bad, but what are you playing like it?
If you take a child out of kindergarten and he does not want to talk about what happened today with him in kindergarten, do not ask questions, talk about something else.
Motivate the child in conversation and it will tell you almost everything that he is interested in, or concerned about what he wants.
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